Zen Nona in Santa Fe & Denver!

I am now home from my Zen Nona – (now or never adventure) in Denver, Colorado, Santa Fe & Albuquerque, New Mexico. In the photo below is a collage of the amazing 5 museums I visited. It was a huge dose of ZENFUL Arts & Culture! I highly recommend planning a Zen Nona and enjoying each and every mindful moment, meeting new people, experiencing new places, and savoring in all your sweet memories when you get home. Who knows, maybe you might even decide to relocate to one of your adventure spots, if your heart falls in love with a new home sweet home! I may have left my heart in Santa Fe, New Mexico! See below a song I revised, after visiting both Colorado and New Mexico. It was originally titled: “Colorado?”, but I have changed it to: “Santa Fe?” with new lyrics! I fell in love with the gorgeous blooming Spring Lilacs, Wisteria, Iris, Tulips, Etc. The Sangre de Cristo Mountains were beautiful too! I can’t wait to experience Autumn in Santa Fe! I was so happy to stay at an airbnb in Santa Fe that had a grand piano for me to record my music! I am a total novice and teaching myself how to play piano on YouTube! Click on this link to listen on SoundCloud if interested! 
ZEN NONA – Museums Visited:
Denver Art Museum-Degas Exhibit
Clyfford Still Museum-Denver
Nedra Matteucci Galleries & Sculpture Garden- Santa Fe
New Mexico Museum of Art-Santa Fe
Georgia O’Keefe Museum-Santa Fe
Santa Fe
Will you be my new home?
I love your
Lilacs in the spring
Sunny Skies and Fresh Breezes
and the
Sangre de Cristo Mountain Range
Santa Fe
Will you be my new home?
I think it might be so
If I go
I won’t forget
Sedona
Sedona, Sedona, Sedona
You were a good home
I will miss you so
But it’s time to go to
Santa Fe, New Mexico
I love your
Lilacs in the spring
Sunny Skies and Fresh Breezes
and the
Sangre de Cristo Mountain Range
All Rights Reserved 2016 Lyrics and Piano Music created by Marlene Rose Besso 1/17/2016 Revised from Colorado to Santa Fe 4/27/18

My Zen Nona Blog Published on Project Happiness Website!

So thrilled to see my blog: “Have you Taken A Zen Nona Lately?” published last week on one of my favorite inspirational website: Project HappinessClick on the link to read my blog, and maybe make some Zen Nona plans for your future! Maybe a ZEN visit to Sedona, AZ and take your very own picture of the beautiful Cathedral Rock Vortex

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Have you taken a “Zen Nona” lately?

One of my favorite quotes by Helen Keller is: “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all.”
Last October I began a new chapter in my life which I call my “Zen Nona”.  It’s a term I created that means my: “Zen – Now or Never Adventure”!  This term got created because unfortunately, or shall I say fortunately, after almost 20 years with my client, I was informed they could no longer afford my services! I was not completely surprised, since I was their accountant, and they needed to restructure their business for eventual retirement. Needless to say I was at a crossroads in my life, and I could either make lemonade out of the lemons, or become bitter as a lemon peel! I took the Zen Attitude and spiked my lemonade with rum!
I came to the conclusion while enjoying my spiked lemonade; I would take some time off, before networking for new clients. Considering my age of 64 years old, I decided to collect my Social Security pittance and use a small portion of my savings to subsidize a 6+ month sabbatical of sorts. Like a Gap Year for kids, this is my Gap (nonna=grandmother!) period of time to create, dream, learn, travel, volunteer, network, maybe start a new business venture, and possibly reinvent myself in this 3rd act of life. Another favorite quote that inspired my decision was by Wayne Dyer: “Go for it now. The Future is promised to no one.”

Unfortunately, I am in the same boat as many Baby Boomers who have not saved nearly enough for retirement. As a single woman, never married, without children (other than the 4 legged furry ones), and the high cost of living these days just for a roof over your head, it leaves very little to save for ones future. I know after my Zen Nona comes to an end, I will have to find employment, and continue to work until the day I die, unless I win the lottery!
We all want to earn a living doing what we love. We all have things that we are passionate about, and I believe we live and breathe every moment attempting to find and fulfil our purpose in life. There are so many wonderful words and phrases in all languages that mean: to find our Purpose. My most favorite of these words is Ikigai, the Japanese concept that means: “a reason for being”.  In French the phrase is raison d’êtres, meaning: “the most important reason or purpose for someone or something’s existence”.  In Italian the phrase is ragione di vita, meaning: “reason for living”.

We need to follow and listen to our inner guidance “GPS – Gratitude, Purpose, Soul” system! Our Zen Intuition will always lead us along the divine path, but we need to listen and have faith that we are in the right place, at the right time, doing the right thing.  Several years ago I created an acronym for the word FAITH: Fearless Attitude in Thy Heart, and also wrote a piano song; “Fearless Attitude-FAITH”, here are a few lines:


I’ve got a fearless attitude
In thy heart
Every day in every way
I live my life
Fearlessly
Every day in every way
I live my life
Fearlessly
In thy heart
I call it FAITH
Also I have been writing lyrics about finding my purpose for years! Here are a few lyrics to “My Purpose”:

Seeking the purpose in my lifetime
Show me the way to make a difference
Seeing the Beauty all around me
Show me the way to find the meaning
The advice I give to myself, and offer to you, is to take life one Zenful Moment at a time. Each moment we have the choice between love and fear. Fear is not living in the moment; it is “false evidence appearing real” in the future or the past. I like the quote by Sonia Ricotti : “Surrender to what is, let go of what was, have faith in what will be.” I like to think of it as keeping your Zen On, which means to always be grateful, be calm, and don’t worry about things we cannot change.   
It’s not easy to keep a Zen Attitude all the time, but if we just take life one moment at a time, it makes it a lot easier. I continue to work on this practice doing the best I can, which is all any of us can do. With my double Gemini “monkey- mind”, I may need a Zen Miracle to keep it focused in the moment! If we can be grateful, optimistic, and have FAITH, we will be on the right path.

If you haven’t noticed by now, I love the word ZEN! It’s a very enlightening word, and its only 3 letters! Don’t worry about things you cannot change, relax, turn on your inner GPS, be grateful, and enjoy your Spiked Lemonade!  You can enjoy a “Zen Nona” every day, taking a walk along a labyrinth, enjoying a lovely nature hike, taking a moment to smell the roses, or do whatever your heart desires! Remember: “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all!”

Today is Global LOVE Day!

Be Love & Share Love on this celebration of Global LOVE Day! Sharing Loving-Kindness and Compassion everyday is my heart’s intention. If I can create the Loving ZEN Energy to gift someone with a smile or laugh in their day, it becomes a gift for me too! I always say: To Give is To Receive. We all need Love & Love is all you need! A favorite song of mine by The Beatles is “All You Need Is Love”. This song was created as an international message of love, that could be easily understood by people of different nations. It reflected the feeling of the youth during the Summer of Love in 1967.

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All You Need Is Love
The Beatles

Love, love, love
Love, love, love

Love, love, love
There’s nothing you can do that can’t be done

Nothing you can sing that can’t be sung

Nothing you can say, but you can learn how to play the game

It’s easy

Nothing you can make that can’t be made

No one you can save that can’t be saved

Nothing you can do, but you can learn how to be you in time

It’s easy

All you need is love, all you need is love
All you need is love, love, love is all you need

All you need is love
All you need is love, love, love is all you need

There’s nothing you can know that isn’t known
Nothing you can see that isn’t shown

There’s nowhere you can be that isn’t where you’re meant to be

It’s easy

All you need is love, all you need is love
All you need is love, love, love is all you need

All you need is love (All together now)

All you need is love (Everybody)

All you need is love, love, love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Love is all you need

Yesterday
Oh yeah

(She love you, yeah, yeah, yeah)

(She love you, yeah, yeah, yeah)

Songwriters: John Lennon / Paul Mccartney
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Surrender Box- My Zen Spiritual Practice

Many years ago I came across the concept of creating a “Surrender Box“. I don’t recall where I heard of this spiritual practice, but it has become a staple in my life journey. A dear friend gave me a lovely Lucite frame box for my Birthday in 2010. I put it on my coffee table and inserted one of my favorite pictures, a memory from a visit to the Tulip Festival in Oregon. Eventually it became my “Surrender Box”: Worries to the Universe. I only inserted notes when it was a point in my life where I needed to ask the Universe for help. It was an action I took as a way to surrender my worries, close the cover, breathe and trust that all would be well. 

My “Surrender Box”: Worries to the Universe with a Apophyllite Crystal on the top. This crystal infuses you with spiritual light. Very high vibration energy, creates spiritual growth & awakening, heals stress.  

Over the past 8 years I have written many notes, and some years more than others. Once a year I will look inside the box and read the notes. It is interesting how many are with similar requests to the Universe. I only utilize this Zen Spiritual Practice when I am confronted with something that I can no longer control or cannot see a positive outcome. I try to write the notes as Affirmations, so I keep my focus on the positive outcome that I trust the Universe will provide for me. 

About four years ago I wrote a piano song entitled: “Tell The Universe“, I will include the lyrics and link to listen below. I highly recommend this Zen Spiritual Practice for anyone who is confronted with worries and fears along their life path. This is a powerful ritual and in my experience it has been comforting and given me hope during the darkest hours of my life. I believe we are never alone, when we ask for help, we will always be comforted by the Universe.

Tell the Universe
All your worries
And your fears
Surrender your fears
Worries and Fears
Worries and Fears
Surrender your fears
Darling I suffer too
I love you so
Tell the Universe
All your hopes
and your dreams
Surrender control
Let it all flow
Let it all flow
Surrender control
Darling I’m here for you
I love you so
Darling I love you so
All Rights Reserved 2014 Lyrics created by Marlene Rose Besso 

M&M&M’s – Mindful Moments & Monkey Minds!

In astrology, if any of you are Gemini’s or have the planet Mercury in your chart, you will relate to the term: “Monkey Mind”! I am a DOUBLE Gemini, so my MM is in high gear most of the time, you can think of it as a Monkey Mind on steroids! There are times when I consider it to offer positive rather than negative benefits, such as being curious all the time. I don’t know how I lived more than half my life without GOOGLE! I know I visited the library often, and drove family and friends crazy with all my questions! I love the Albert Einstein quote: I have no special talent. I am only passionately curious.”

Of course it is very difficult to stay in a quiet ZENFUL Mindful Moment when your monkey mind is in high gear. Meditation is not my cup of tea, but I do consciously (mindfully) stop myself when I am going off into rumination land! I quiet my mind for that moment, and choose a positive path instead of allowing the out of control worrisome thoughts and fears to overpower me. Sometimes I catch myself several times a day, and in that moment I make the choice to REWIRE & REBOOT! When our computers crash, we reboot, and when our mind starts crashing we can do the same! 

Having personality traits of a perfectionist and control freak can be quite challenging to say the least. We are only in control one moment at a time, and for that I am thankful! None of us are perfect, so be kind to yourself and reboot your mind, it feels like a breath of fresh air flowing through your soul! Just Breathe and Trust that you are in control for that one moment in time. Of course I just GOOGLED how many seconds are in a moment! Some theories say there are 90 seconds in each moment. And…googling again I find out that there are 86,400 seconds in a day, which equates to 960 ZENFUL Mindful Moments to Breathe, Rewire & Reboot!

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Planes, Trains, Uber’s & Airbnb’s!

I am excited about my Zen Nona coming up soon! Adventures await in Colorado & New Mexico for immersion in their arts and culture.The getting to and from traveling part is when I need to get my Zen On! I need to be calm, breathe, and not worry about things I can’t control. Planes, Trains, Uber’s & Airbnb’s will be my modes of travel, it’s the 21st Century way to go! If only the invention of traveling by “beaming” that was promised in those TV shows of years gone by had come true! I think it was The Jetson’s in the 60’s with their dreamy technology predictions, and then of course there is Star Trek! Yes, we do have driverless cars, but I don’t want to test one out quite yet! 

Oh well, in the meantime, we still have airport security to deal with and so much wasted time waiting around in between destinations. Schlepping carry on luggage, sitting next to strangers, sleeping in beds with pillows that are not your own, environmental unknowns, weather, indoor temperature control and scents unknown! If I think too much about all those things that I can’t control, I may have to stay home! I guess it’s time I take some of my own ZEN advice, and work on my Zen Attitude

Meeting new people, exploring new areas, and getting out of your comfort zone is so good for the soul. Traveling alone is a great way for serendipitous adventures! I think most of the memories that get created on our trips, hold even more importance when we get home, we can virtually take ourselves back to the places that we loved. 

I was so inspired by the Ted Talk and Book by Pico Iyer: The Art of Stillness, where he talks about what it means to travel, and what “home” means to him. I love his quote about travel: “Serendipity was my tour guide, assisted by caprice”. I had to look up the word “caprice”, and Dictionary.com defines it as: a sudden, unpredictable change, as of one’s mind or the weather. I will remember this word during my travels! Serendipity will be wonderful, and keeping a Zen Attitude adapting when caprice situations arise.Those good ole sayings ring so true, especially when traveling out of your comfort zone. “Life does not have to be perfect to be wonderful” and “take the good with the bad”!

All aboard for the Serendipity – Travel Zen Adventure!

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Zen Daydreaming!

Today I find myself delightfully daydreaming! Daydreaming is fun in the moment, but when you find yourself, instead of daydreaming, worrying about what’s going to happen in the future, then the moment is lost. Why do our minds try to reach forward or look backwards instead of just being in the moment? 
It’s not easy to keep a Zen Attitude all the time, but if we just take life one moment at a time, it makes it a lot less difficult. I will continue to work on this practice and do my best to be Zen in each momentary gift of life I am so gratefully given. My Double Gemini “monkey- mind” may need a Zen Miracleto get rewired, but I am optimistic and have FAITH!

I read a quote today by Sonia Ricotti about daydreaming that I wanted to share with everyone. “Surrender to what is, let go of what was, have faith in what will be.”  I created an acronym for the word FAITH: Fearless Attitude In Thy Heart, and also wrote piano lyrics which I will share below.
When it comes to daydreaming, I always think about one of my favorite quotes of all times by Albert Einstein: “Imagination is more important than knowledge.”
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Happy Zen Daydreaming! 

“Fearless Attitude: FAITH”  
I’ve got a fearless attitude
Fearless attitude
I’ve got a fearless attitude
In thy heart
Every day in every way
I live my life
Fearlessly
Fearlessly
I’ve got a fearless attitude
In thy heart
I’ve got a fearless attitude
In thy heart
Every day in every way
I live my life
Fearlessly
In thy heart
I call it FAITH
All Rights Reserved 2014 Lyrics and Piano Music created by Marlene Rose Besso 3/9/2013

Zen in the Art of Taxes

It’s that time of year AGAIN! We all know the famous quote by Benjamin Franklin: “In this world nothing can be said to be certain, except death and taxes”! Today is the day for me to dive into this life certainty! I call it my “Zen in the Art of Taxes” Day! I am sharing one of my original paintings created in 2011 entitled: “Zen in the Art of Accounting”! I have this painting hanging in my office as a ZENFUL Inspirational Daily Reminder, that I will always have Prosperity & Abundance doing what I Love! 

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My Zen Daily Words for today, especially for the necessary task I will need to do:
ENERGIZED
Focus
Intention
Generosity
Understanding
Accomplish
Pride

While doing things in life that we don’t necessarily choose to do, a ZEN ATTITUDE will get us through! Putting your Heart and Soul into whatever you do in life, is the best way to live a Zenful Life. Here is a Zen Proverb that resonates loudly for me: “The only Zen you find at the top of the mountain is the Zen you bring with you.”  

Matzo or Pasta DNA and Paschal Full Moon

Today I found myself thinking about Matzo and Pasta since Passover began last night and tomorrow is Easter Sunday! I know which one is my favorite! Also, today is the Paschal Full Moon which I had never heard of before. 


I was always skeptical about all the companies advertising DNA Kit Testing, but as of today I can say for certainty that my ancestry/heritage is European Jewish and Europe South-Sicily, according to my Ancestry.com DNA Test Results! I just sent messages to 2nd and 3rd Cousins that came up as DNA Matches! What a lovely and Zenful gift it will be to connect with family members who up until now were never on my radar. 

I am grateful for this gift coming on such a sacred weekend of Passover and Easter. I waited several weeks for the results from Ancestry.com, and the timing is just perfect. If we wait patiently for life to unfold in Divine Order, the outcome is usually better than we ever could imagine. 

Today is a Full Moon the second one in March, also known as a Blue Moon! It is also called the Paschal Full Moon. I had never heard of that before, (my constant curiosity is one of my favorite character traits,) so I looked up the meaning of this Full Moon and found some interesting history on Wikipedia and Space.com websites.

The paschal full moon refers to the ecclesiastical full moon of the northern spring used in the determination of the date of Easter. The name “paschal” is derived from “Pascha”, a transliteration of the Aramaic word meaning Passover. 

Spring began on March 20, and 11 days later, the moon turns full. So this is also the first full moon of spring, and as such, it’s designated as the Paschal Moon. The first Sunday after the Paschal Moon is usually designated as Easter Sunday, as will indeed be the case on the very next day, April 1.

On this special weekend I think about all the memories with family who have now passed on. I think about my Italian Heritage on my Mom’s side, the special Easter feasts that we all enjoyed. Since it is a Blue Moon, I wanted to share this version of the song: “Blue Moon” by Dean Martin who was my Mom’s favorite! 

Happy Easter and Happy Passover from this Italian & Zen-Jew! 
Namaste


Dean Martin Version:

“Blue Moon”
Blue moon, You saw me standing alone, Without a dream in my heart, Without a love of my own. Blue moon, You knew just what I was there for. You heard me saying a pray for Someone I really could care for. Blue moon, You saw me standing alone, Without a dream in my heart, Without a love of my own. Blue moon… Without a love of my own.

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